My First Boyfriend

At the age of 12 or 13 when you first period begins, that's when your first feelings begin to manifest. You begin to feel shy in front of boys. Suddenly, you feel attracted to someone. You start to notice changes on your body especially in the chest and hip areas. You spend ages looking at yourself in the mirror. Looking for someone to approve how you look. The way you dress and carry yourself changes. You begin to stay indoors  a lot. 

My first boyfriend whom I started feeling anything for was my classmate. I was 12 or so and in 7th grade. We met in class! We were the same age! It was the most enjoyable time of my life. Often times we played together after school and sent each other cryptic messages written on a piece of paper. We played "pass it on" in class. It was bliss.


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